That’s because you’re learning how to self soothe and nurture yourself. There’s a lot of intense feeling there and you probably have emotional needs that are so powerful you feel no one can fulfill them. Pluto might not like that, in fact Pluto will probably create a lot of emotional tension in your close relationships. Pluto would put a lot of pressure on Cancer to evolve and emotionally mature since Cancer tends to rely on external forms of security, usually other people. Cancer prefers things to stay the same for the sake of feeling safe and they can shy away from things outside of this comfort zone. Now where they do contradict each other is Pluto’s desire for transformation. Pluto is about depth, intimacy, emotional security. It’s probably not particularly fun, but they have similar themes. It’s not very contradictory, in fact I think those energies work together. asks composite pluto in composite pluto moon square pluto composite mercury sqaure pluto composite sun square pluto composite venus square pluto composite mars square pluto composite Cheating or wanting to cheat can become the main source of frustration. Intense feelings of anger and even a desire for physical violence (though they may not act this out). Mars: A battle of wills within the relationship. Cheating or paranoia regarding cheating plagues the relationship. One or both people projecting negative judgments onto the other. One partner controlling or dominating the relationship. Venus: Codependency issues, financial problems, a difference in core values. Sado/masochistic psychological tendencies within the relationship. A lot of harsh words exchanged during arguments or someone is being verbally abusive. Mercury: Miscommunications and secrets, one or both people being manipulative or trying to influence the other’s way of thinking. Someone is encouraging emotional/psychological dependency in the other person. The relationship makes both people withdrawn or reluctant to allow other people into their lives. Moon: Emotional problems likely on both sides that results in excessive neediness, misunderstandings or passive aggressiveness. Sun: A lot of jealousy and egotistical behavior, one or both people needing to be the center of the other’s universe, needing constant validation/attention or feeling the relationship is all about them. The negative themes of those planets permeate the relationship and need deep conscious work to be resolved.
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